I'm generally a private person.
Not to be equated with being sneaky or deceitful. Just private.
On that same note, I am transparent in my honesty and often times the way I feel about a situation can be seen in my mannerisms.
Not only that but I express how I feel...at least when I'm ready. It's not like I will never talk about what might be going through my mind, I just don't want to be pushed to do so when I'm not ready.
That always has a bad ending, because then I'm resentful and feel like my personal freedom and privacy have been violated.
Should I have to share every thought that crosses my mind when asked? That can't be healthy. Some thoughts are fleeting and in between thoughts on the way to a conclusion.
So just how transparent should a relationship be?
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
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I understand completely! You know I get myself worked up over very miniscule things...Imagine if I felt the need to express everything I felt? It's not cool. I need time to work it out in my head, tell myself I'm trippin and go on with my business...
ReplyDeleteAnd if I'm not trippin, I need to express myself in a way that actually makes sense and is not filled with exaggerated emotion.
Exactly!
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